Sign ups are only done in person at events held throughout the country. This ensures there's no bots, no imposters, nothing. Yes, this does require more work on your part- but you also know no women got to "skip the line" either- and more importantly, no one that shouldn't be able to got in.
We are a premium platform with a premium restriction- think of it like getting into an exclusive club, catered exactly to the needs that you've expressed to your friends so many times.